Why in a Bootcamp?

May 6th, 2008

Press have been watching boot camps very closely for anything that may stink enough to publish in their tabloids. Something that is very unavoidable since it is children’s welfare that we are talking about. After all the bad publicity, why would you even consider sending your child to a boot camp?

Simple. Boot camp is heaven compared to the uncertainties that your child will face in a prison yard. Be aware that if your child does any crime, a boot camp is a substitute for regular prison where your child will be mixed with burglars, rapists and murderers — once he finally come to the legal age. If your child hasn’t done anything that may cost him a couple of years in prison and you are afraid that at the rate that he is going at the moment, he might be heading there soon enough, send him to a boot camp. Sending him there may not discipline him but this will make him experience how it is to be ordered around constantly, act in a schedule set by someone else and associate himself with strangers who may have worse behavior than himself. In a boot camp, he will experience being treated equally with other teens, he cannot have his way or do the pranks that he got used to doing. There, bad acts are confronted, you can’t just turn your back and wallow in your own world as if you didn’t do anything bad.

This entry is not supposed to be selling the idea of boot camps to parents. It is a warning to the teens that boot camp is only the start of the many consequences that you will have to put up with in case you cause any trouble. And mind you, being in a boot camp is not optional for you, you will have to convince your parents not to send you there because only they can decide your fate when it all boils down to this.


Understanding Why?

May 1st, 2008

In an episode of Oprah they featured some people who admitted into having a bipolar disorder. A previous entry discussed the characteristic of Bipolar disorder as an onset of conspicuously arduous mood (mania) followed by sudden episodes of total depression or vise versa. In simpler explanation, the person with bipolar disorder may be acting very normal one minute and the next thing you know he will be in a rage doing extremely destructive things that he doesn’t normally do. This is one of the most common alibis that has been reported to have happened in certain cases involving an extreme misbehavior. This is when they use the phrase “ to plead insanity”.

In Oprah they featured a woman who is experiencing that kind of condition, she was interviewed while she was in her cell imprisoned for killing her own son, strangling him while immersing him in a tub of water. They even played her 911 call in the show where she admitted to killing her son. They brought him to the hospital but he died a few days later. She felt remorse with what her disorder made her do but she never pleaded insanity for it and was convicted for murder. Having this kind of disorder is very difficult especially since the most common person that you are with are the people you love- your family. If you would keep on ignoring the possibility, you are endangering not only yourself but your entire family and any person surrounding you.

Some people who have bipolar disorder has already asked for professional help. They are given medication that can help them regulate their emotions and it has so far helped them cope with the disorder and have healthier relationship with their families. One example is Maurice Benard, an award winning actor who suffered from being a bipolar for years. In one of his roles, he admitted to have let go of his character to places that he shouldn’t be. This caused him to have a very severe attack that kept him in an institution for some time.


Tougher Ground

April 23rd, 2008

 

 

 

 

 

Most parents will usually resort to counseling when dealing with their struggling children. Sometimes it works, only means that your child’s bad behavior is not yet in it’s severest case or you must have been lucky to find a good therapist. Unfortunately it doesn’t always work like that. In the start of a session, most teenagers normally prefer not to open up to their therapist. In repetitive visit, they would start being selective in the things that they disclose to their therapist. After a few more sessions, surprisingly no difference surfaces because seriously theres nothing wrong with these teens, so there’s nothing to treat. Some of them simply got used to a negative behavioral pattern. 

So what do most parents do when the time comes that they can no longer control their rebellious children? One good and effective solution is by sending them to a boot camp.

 

Boot camps can help rebellious and struggling children who are unresponsive to normal counseling. Boot camps instill positive values to your child which he or she will bring long after leaving boot camp. This may be a process of enforcement of will but sometimes, it would take a tighter grasp on the teen for him to change. Showing them that negative acts corresponds to negative consequences may teach them that there isn’t anything they will get from misbehaving. Recent studies have shown that boots camps having succeeded where counseling has failed. So for parents who are having a hard time dealing with their children’s behavior, sending them to boot camp can do them a lot of good.